{"id":25689,"date":"2025-04-15T15:30:12","date_gmt":"2025-04-15T10:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thehealingastro.com\/blog\/?p=25689"},"modified":"2025-04-15T15:39:05","modified_gmt":"2025-04-15T10:09:05","slug":"love-house-in-astrology","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thehealingastro.com\/blog\/love-house-in-astrology\/","title":{"rendered":"Love House in Astrology"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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The whole source of the Love that you seek \u2013 is in the FIFTH house of your birth chart.<\/p>\n\n

LOVE is one thing. Marriage is other thing. Marriage is only a working partnership. LOVE is something else, altogether different than what marriage is!<\/p>\n\n

Love has absolutely no relation to LOGIC, to RULES, to INTELLECT \u2013 it is quite unconnected to thought. Love HAPPENS \u2013 the word \u2018HAPPEN\u2019 is beautiful \u2013 I personally love this word \u2013 because whatever HAPPENS is never planned \u2013 it just \u2018happens\u2019!<\/p>\n\n

Life is also something that \u2013 happens! Love, Life is never planned \u2013 it just happens. And so does \u2013 SANNYAS!<\/p>\n\n

That is the reason why 5th house is significant. That is the reason why 5th Lord is significant. And that is the reason why LOVE is significant.<\/p>\n\n

Love needs tremendous COURAGE! When a man or woman is fired up with LOVE \u2013 they can go to any extent to attain the LOVE that they SEEK.<\/p>\n\n

5th house also signify COURAGE. Remember 5th house is represented by the SIGN LEO \u2013 the LION!<\/p>\n\n

Love is the \u2018source\u2019 that brings COURAGE. This LOVE can be the LOVE for a person or for the NATION! Freedom Fighters became fighters because they had tremendous LOVE for the NATION \u2013 Bhagat Singh, Lokmanya Tilak, Veer Savarkar \u2013 Mahatama Gandhi and many freedom fighters were aflamed with LOVE for our country \u2013 it is always LOVE that \u2018triggers\u2019 the whole story of life, it is always LOVE that brings life to our being.<\/p>\n\n

In the beginning you are seeking LOVE. Then someday and at someplace \u2013 you FALL in love. But the real \u2018maturity\u2019 comes when you no more fall in love but you become love!<\/p>\n\n

The whole purpose of LIFE is to become LOVE!<\/p>\n\n

Love is the GOAL \u2013 Life is the journey to attain the GOAL \u2013 LOVE!<\/p>\n\n

Only a man who can become LOVE \u2013 can live LIFE in totality and only a man who can live life with LOVE \u2013 can one day attain the BUDDHAHOOD \u2013 (Sannyas)!<\/p>\n\n

It is all inter-connected, and the thread that connects LOVE, LIFE, SANYAS is LOVE!<\/p>\n\n

A man or woman whose 5th house is aflame with MARS \u2013 SUN \u2013 JUPITER or VENUS or MOON is indeed a man of LOVE \u2013 he loves ROMANCE. But one must understand that ROMANCE can of many layers \u2013 from the base to the high level!<\/p>\n\n

One must understand that the Oxford dictionary defines the words ROMANCE as a kind of ADVENTURE!<\/p>\n\n

And Adventures can of many levels and of all kinds \u2013 and the very first ADVENTURE that LOVE initiates is to \u2018JUMP\u2019 into the unknown!<\/p>\n\n

Once you are in LOVE, once you are aflame with LOVE \u2013 once your whole being is fired up with LOVE \u2013 you can JUMP \u2013 you will JUMP!<\/p>\n\n

That is how many LOVERS have JUMPED and RISKED their life \u2013 and there has been absolutely NO REGRET \u2013 because LOVE never REGRETS \u2013 when you LOVE, you simply LOVE!<\/p>\n\n

And when this LOVE is raised to the HIGHER ALTITUDES \u2013 SPIRITUALISM \u2013 then you have someone as beautiful as JOHN, the baptist, Peter, the fisherman, Ananda, Arjuna \u2013 who has so much LOVE for their master \u2013 that they never looked back, never asked a single question, never raised any doubts \u2013 they SIMPLY JUMPED into the unknown \u2013 the followed the Master!<\/p>\n\n

Love has many layers \u2013 the love that Buddha has will of different quality than the love that Hitler has! Hitler\u2019s love will be hot \u2013 that is what the commoners know about love \u2013 to them LOVE always have to be HOT! Even when they eat dog \u2013 they want HOT DOG! So the concept of LOVE for the commoners is of HOT LOVE, SEXUAL LOVE.<\/p>\n\n

But Buddha\u2026..Buddha\u2019s love is like that cool breeze, there is no demand, no conditions, when you in the omnipresence of Buddha \u2013 the love that you receive is different than the HOT LOVE that you have known.<\/p>\n\n

The HOT LOVE that people have is not LOVE in totality \u2013 it also has the shade of HATE. The \u2018fights\u2019 is a result of that HATE \u2013 when the fight is over \u2013 you cool down and then again you are in the bed \u2013 making LOVE! You see \u2013 this is how the LOVE of the physical world is!<\/p>\n\n

But BUDDHA \u2013 in BUDDHA\u2019s LOVE you will find absolutely no shade of hate and so many may also find BUDDHA\u2019s love as BORING because there is no \u2018spice\u2019 in HIS love!<\/p>\n\n

You may say anything to HIM and yet he is NOT going to react. HE is simply going to SMILE and HIS smile is so penetrating that if you can receive \u2013 then his smile can simply penetrate into the deepest valleys of your heart and move you within!<\/p>\n\n

Buddha is the highest the purest state of LOVE that knows only to SHARE, to GIVE and just to GIVE!<\/p>\n\n

You can only GIVE if you HAVE!<\/p>\n\n

Buddha has it \u2013 in fact Buddha is not just filled with LOVE \u2013 BUDDHA is LOVE!<\/p>\n\n

Before leaving his body \u2013 Buddha had said to his disciples \u201c Do NOT make statue of me because once I am gone, I am gone. The statue can go on deceiving you for centuries.\u201d<\/p>\n\n

For five hundred centuries no statue was made. But later people started building statues of Buddha \u2013 when Buddha himself had said \u201c Do NOT make statue of me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n

There is a very deep meaning to the beautiful message that Buddha had shared with his disciples \u2013 and it is significant for you all to understand.<\/p>\n\n

It is always easy to follow a STATUE \u2013 it is of BUDDHA but it is DEAD. It cannot move you \u2013 cannot disrupt you \u2013 cannot pull you away from your illusions!<\/p>\n\n

But ALIVE BUDDHA \u2013 can ask you to do something that is in your interest but not in your favor! The ALIVE BUDDHA can ask you to drop everything and FOLLOW HIM \u2013 then it will be difficult because you are attached to each and everything \u2013 right from your CAR, HOME, to your WIFE and children and so ALIVE BUDDHA is dangerous \u2013 a STATUE is BETTER! Make nice STATUE \u2013 offer a nice garland of beautiful flowers \u2013 burn an incense stick \u2013 and that is all! You are safe \u2013 the STATUE is NOT going to ask for anything \u2013 you can safely say that I LOVE THE STATUE \u2013 but you will think twice if in the place of the STATUE \u2013 the REAL BUDDHA \u2013 the ALIVE BUDDHA is present because then the master is not dead \u2013 he is ALIVE and people always find it a challenge to follow the MASTER\u2019s word \u2013 because THOSE words disrupt the MIND \u2013 and you are still caught up with the MIND \u2013 the MIND loves STATUES of MASTERS (it is a safe bet) \u2013 but the same MIND will start shivering if the REAL BUDDHA comes \u2013 because BUDDHA is the state of NO MIND and LOVE exists only when there is NO MIND but only the heart \u2013 the consciousness!<\/p>\n\n

To conquer others \u2013 you may succeed someday, at some birth cycle. But to conquer your MIND \u2013 to become the Master of your Mind \u2013 is NOT so easy. It may take a lifetime or many births until \u2013 the \u2018Buddha\u2019 is born.
\u201cBuddha\u201d is not a name, it is a title. It is a title that reveals the state of NO MIND. Buddha means the state of NO MIND. Buddha is NO MIND.<\/p>\n\n

NO MIND \u2013 means NO LOGIC, NO HEAD \u2013 and LOVE HAPPENS only when there is NO LOGIC, NO HEAD \u2013 absolutely NO HEAD.<\/p>\n\n

There are many aspects that may initiate LOVE MARRIAGE \u2013 one of them is when the fifth house lord connects in some way with the seventh house \u2013 a strong possibility of a Love Marriage is signified.<\/p>\n\n

Rarely does one find LOVE in MARRIAGE! There are \u2018individuals\u2019 who are destined to find LOVE only OUTSIDE marriage. Universe is vast \u2013 very vast \u2013 the MIND cannot contain the VASTNESS of this UNIVERSE \u2013 and so people who are slaves of their MIND cannot feel the VASTNESS and along with it the many many millions and millions of SITUATIONAL SCENARIOS that evolve in certain \u2018individual\u2019s\u2019 life!<\/p>\n\n

There are many such \u2013 in millions around this VAST HUMAN WORLD \u2013 who enjoy sexual pleasures, emotional support, hand-holding only OUTSIDE MARRIAGE and not in marriage!<\/p>\n\n

So MARRIAGE definitely has NOTHING do with LOVE. In a rare case \u2013 in exceptional cases \u2013 if marriage happens out of LOVE \u2013 then it is a different thing \u2013 but statistics show that maximum DIVORCE CASES are from LOVE MARRIAGES than otherwise!<\/p>\n\n

But still \u2018MARRIAGE\u2019 remains an institution that is going to remain forever \u2013 for the sole reason \u2013 that MARRIAGE is a part of tradition \u2013 a practical MEDIUM \u2013 to attain material GAINS!<\/p>\n\n

During the Imperial Age \u2013 the KINGS would have many marriages with many women of princely states \u2013 because those MARRIAGES would SECURE the material gains and strengthen his authority over more provinces and more people.<\/p>\n\n

So MARRIAGE is always going to remain \u2013 it is not a necessity but it has been made compulsory \u2013 because it has absolutely NOTHING to do with LOVE \u2013 but more to do with STATUS, and SOCIETY!<\/p>\n\n

For LOVE \u2013 only 5th house and 5th house LORD\u2019s connection with VENUS is enough.<\/p>\n\n

For LOVE MARRIAGE \u2013 the 7th house connection with the 5th house is necessary.<\/p>\n\n

Generally women or men having MARS VENUS conjunction are highly sexual by nature \u2013 and they also look very HOT. So sexuality is seen but this sexuality has absolutely nothing to do with marriage.<\/p>\n\n

VENUS MOON \u2013 again is a highly sexual woman or man. This is also a pleasure seeking BHOGI person \u2013 and enjoys many sexual pleasures in life \u2013 along with other luxuries of life.<\/p>\n\n

VENUS RAHU \u2013 again highly sexual \u2013 wants MORE sex \u2013 real time sex that LAST LONGER \u2013 and not just get over in 5 minutes.<\/p>\n\n

VENUS URANUS \u2013 this person likes to have unique way of doing SEX \u2013 they always try out new things to add excitement to their sexual experiences. Erotic sex is something they love to explore \u2013 and are generally out of the box thinkers when it comes to having sex.<\/p>\n\n

VENUS NEPTUNE \u2013 this person lacks actual ACTION in the BED. He goes on imagining and fantasizing \u2013 and in the process bores the partner (if the partner is strong sexual being). Because the partner wants some hard sex \u2013 and this person simply is too soft and kills all the fun that the partner expects.<\/p>\n\n

Human life comes with many flavors \u2013 and HUMAN becomes GODLY \u2013 when there is absolutely NO flavor left \u2013 NIRGUNA \u2013 when there is no SATVIC guna, no TAMASIC Guna, and no RAJAS Guna \u2013 NIRGUNA!<\/p>\n\n

NAR \u2013 to \u2013 NARAYAN. That is the whole journey \u2013 my fellows, that is the whole journey \u2013 NAR (HUMAN) nature is of being BHOGI (pleasure seeking) and NARAYAN is the nature of being YOGI (God seeking)!<\/p>\n\n

Births happen \u2013 today a woman is not happy in her marriage, not satisfied sexually in her marriage \u2013 she will come back \u2013 today a man is not happy in his marriage, not satisfied sexually in his marriage \u2013 he will come back. This is how the cycle of birth and rebirth continues \u2013 you keep coming back- and SOCIETY has made this more complicated because SOCIETY blocks the men and women to seek sexual pleasures from else where \u2013 and then there is no other option \u2013 the man\/woman dies with the DESIRE unfulfilled \u2013 and takes BIRTH again to satisfy the unfinished business!<\/p>\n\n

This whole cycle of rebirth could have been avoided \u2013 had they satisfied their desire in the same life itself! But the question of wrong doing and right doing comes in between them and their desires \u2013 indeed a very touching situation \u2013 that only a master can understand \u2013 because the master is BEYOND the society\u2019s so called \u2018WRONG DOING\u2019 and \u2018RIGHT DOING\u2019 theories.<\/p>\n\n

The master can understand YOU. The real GURU will ACCEPT you without asking you a single question. The real master will NEVER judge you \u2013 HE can understand your heart than anybody else would!<\/p>\n\n

Always remember MORALITY is SUBJECTIVE \u2013 is totally SITUATIONAL BASED. MORALITY is totally based on your level of CONSCIOUSNESS.<\/p>\n\n

Remember Sri Krishna \u2013 remember the many ways that otherwise are not considered to be ethical that Krishna implemented during the Mahabharata War? Now would you call Krishna immoral? NO that would sound too stupid! Because what KRISHNA did was spontaneous \u2013 his morality was spontaneous and in the state of TOTAL CONSCIOUSNESS.<\/p>\n\n

WHATEVER YOU DO \u2013 IF YOU ARE DOING IT WITH CONSCIOUSNESS \u2013 WITH FULL AWARENESS than that is the real morality \u2013 it is NOT fake \u2013 it is NOT because of any outside pressure \u2013 it is spontaneous, and very much a result of your own consciousness!<\/p>\n\n

Rumi when says \u201c I will meet you on a field which is beyond the \u2018wrong doing\u2019 and \u2018right doing\u2019\u201d \u2013 HE addresses the FIELD of CONSCIOUSNESS!<\/p>\n\n

How beautiful is this and how deep \u2013 only a meditative being can truly relate, can truly understand. Bliss. Pure bliss.<\/p>\n\n

5th house is very important because LOVE is very important! Without 5th house and 5th house Lord support \u2013 LOVE is missed, it is simply missed!<\/p>\n\n

And only a man who can LOVE \u2013 can also LOVE someday GOD \u2013 can also go to the extremes to experience GOD \u2013 can also become a BUDDHA! Because he can JUMP \u2013 he can be COURAGEOUS \u2013 he can go beyond MIND \u2013 and only a man who can GO BEYOND MIND \u2013 can do something that is OUT OF MIND!<\/p>\n\n

A man who has gone all HIS way to attain the LOVE of his life, has all the \u2018necessary\u2019 qualities to attain GOD \u2013 such a man *is* SPIRITUAL because LOVE is SPIRITUAL and HE has already surrendered to LOVE \u2013 so going a step ahead \u2013 crossing the boundary of the KINGDOM is not going to be difficult for him \u2013 and that is what Prince Siddhartha did \u2013 when time came, when the CALL OF THE DIVINE came \u2013 he simply left his KINGDOM \u2013 and became the BUDDHA \u2013 Gautama Buddha!<\/p>\n\n

Only a man who can dive \u2013 who can JUMP can become a BUDDHA someday. And you will dive, you will jump, you will show courage only when you are truly a follower of your HEART!<\/p>\n\n

That is the reason that I have always encouraged you all to FOLLOW your heart. The society says FOLLOW YOUR HEAD \u2013 FOLLOW YOUR LOGIC \u2013 but the divine compassionate master is encouraging you all to FOLLOW YOUR HEART \u2013 only then LOVE is possible, only then the dance is possible, and only then this life is possible!<\/p>\n\n

Always follow your heart, your heart knows the way \u2013 run in that direction, for the heart is always right. Always.<\/p>\n\n

Meditation is the \u2018path\u2019 that can help you reach your Heart! Heart-meditation \u2013 focus on your heart \u2013 be attentive to your breathing and meditate every day.<\/p>\n\n

Jai Shri Ganesha. Jai Guru.<\/p>\n\n

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