You answer is in your question itself! Rahu \u2013 the shadow of ignorance when casts its shadow on the house of partnership (marriage ) \u2013 there is bound to be more problems than otherwise!<\/p>\n
But it is not just RAHU \u2013 you cannot blame just the shadow? Wouldn\u2019t it be too naive to do so! You have to see \u2013 whose shadow it is?<\/p>\n
It is yours \u2013 it is your OWN KARMA \u2013 whose shadow (fruits) you are tasting in this human life! So understand the depth of this situation \u2013 there is no point in blaming your partner \u2013 there is no point in saying \u2018she is like this\u2019 and \u2018she is doing this and that\u2019 \u2013 she is your past karma\u2019s fruit \u2013 remember this \u2013 until this sinks within you \u2013 you will commit the same mistake again and again and again \u2013 of getting divorced \u2013 parting ways \u2013 and so on!<\/p>\n
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And that is what happens \u2013 out of ignorance \u2013 a man, a woman with RAHU in seventh house \u2013 act out of ignorance \u2013 they do the same mistake of hurting their wife or husbands \u2013 divorcing them or causing pain to them \u2013 and the cycle goes on repeating \u2013 it repeats life after life \u2013 until a day comes \u2013 when you become aware \u2013 of your own doing \u2013 your own karma \u2013 and that is the day of you real transformation!<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t ask \u2013 why am I not happy with my marriage \u2013 don\u2019t ask \u2013 why my wife is like this or has turned out to be like this \u2013 you will get hundred of answers from many people \u2013 and yet you would never be satisfied \u2013 because the *answer* is within you \u2013 the power of possibility is within you!<\/p>\n
What should I do then? \u2013 You have to become friends \u2013 remember \u2013 LOVE is the starter \u2013 but what helps you sustain a marriage<\/a> or a relationship is \u2013 Friendship!<\/p>\n Unless friendship grows love is bound to fail. So while love is there make sure that friendship is growing, because sooner or later the romance of love will disappear and if the friendship has not grown by that time then the whole thing falls flat.<\/p>\n \u201cLove is not an hallucination, it is a moment of high passion, but one cannot remain on the high moment forever. One has to cool down, come back to earth, move on the plains; that\u2019s where life exists. You can fly high in the sky for a few moments but then you have to come back to earth. Before you come back to the earth create friendship because that will last. So love, love as much as possible, but always remember that love has to give space to friendship.\u201d \u2013 Osho<\/p>\n A man or a woman with RAHU in 7th house should become more understanding, more accomodative, more friendly \u2013 RAHU in 7th makes you a man or a woman who \u2018DEMANDS\u2019 a lot of things from his or her partner \u2013 STOP THAT \u2013 make your demand \u2013 a request \u2013 be humble \u2013 be understanding!<\/p>\n \u201cTo understand everything is to FORGIVE everything\u201d says the Buddha!<\/p>\n