{"id":4197,"date":"2021-07-01T03:51:24","date_gmt":"2021-07-01T03:51:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.astroinsights.co.in\/?p=4197"},"modified":"2025-04-29T17:08:58","modified_gmt":"2025-04-29T11:38:58","slug":"how-to-please-saturn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thehealingastro.com\/blog\/how-to-please-saturn\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Please Saturn?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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It is very important that YOU are HAPPY \u2013 only then \u2014 then the fragrance of your HAPPINESS can spread to the farthest shores of this planet \u2013 only then can you bring HAPPINESS to every human being who comes in your contact \u2013 only then there is every possibility for you to enjoy this human life to the fullest.<\/p>

It is important that first YOU are HAPPY. And when I say \u2013 YOU \u2013 it is not just for the questioner but for all my readers, followers and fellow travelers.<\/p>

HAPPINESS should spring within you \u2013 there is absolutely NO NEED to take any efforts to make others happy \u2013 But who wants to listen?<\/p>

The whole world is trying to do this \u2013 they all are trying to make others happy\u2014trying to be happy, and this is all but \u2018pretending\u2019 \u2013 in reality nobody is happy!<\/p>

Because happiness cannot be found on the outside \u2013 but people are seeking happiness on the outside\u2014if somebody appreciates you \u2013 you become happy . If somebody gifts you \u2013 you become happy. If somebody treats you well\u2014you become happy. You see \u2013 the WHOLE DEPENDENCY is on the OTHER person \u2013 on the OUTSIDE FACTORS \u2013 for you to remain happy\u2014to be happy and that is the whole tragedy of this human life \u2013 that you always are bend on finding happiness through somebody\u2014but never WITHIN!<\/p>

The urge of the common man is to MAKE OTHERS HAPPY \u2013 so that they would get the necessary attention.<\/p>

Why you want to make others happy? Be it God, Planet, Human being or animals \u2013 because you believe that making others happy \u2013 you will be happy!<\/p>

That never happens \u2013 and if it happens \u2013 you are just fooling yourself \u2013 because then you are becoming dependent on others \u2013 for your happiness and that is indeed the most unfortunate thing to happen.<\/p>

What happens when you try to make somebody happy?<\/p>

You start CHANGING to make them comfortable. You start dropping your individuality to accommodate and appease them. God would never want this to happen. Saturn would never want this to happen. But human beings believe that by appeasing \u2013 by offering \u2018bribes\u2019 \u2013 you can appease the God, the Lord, the Cosmic Judge \u2013 Lord Saturn.<\/p>

When your whole focus is on appeasing others \u2013 you start losing yourself \u2013 you start chasing RESPECTABILITY \u2013 and in this madness you start losing your INDIVIDUALITY.<\/p>

Respectability is slavery. Individuality is dignity. – Osho<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

Respectability is like a Glass piece. It is fragile. One mistake and your whole respectability can come crashing down \u2013 suddenly you may find yourself in the most undesired situation.<\/p>

Individuality is REAL. You have been living your life \u2013 by being yourself. You have NEVER compromised to GAIN RESPECT \u2013 you have NEVER bothered to CHANGE yourself in order to APPEASE somebody or to make somebody happy. You just have been living your life \u2013 naturally \u2013 following your heart \u2013 following the intuitive voice within.<\/p>

But the human world at large is doing the exact opposite \u2013 they are GIVING immense importance to PERSONALITY \u2013 to RESPECTABILITY \u2013 to all those rosy things that look perfect on the outside but have absolutely NO fragrance to it \u2013 NO liveliness to it \u2013 because it is all FAKE.<\/p>

PERSONALITIES ARE FAKE. It is a MASK. The word PERSONA has come from the Greek word \u2013 persona. From persona comes the word \u2018personality\u2019 \u2013 it is the \u2018face\u2019 that you wear \u2013 it is NOT the real face.<\/p>

Personality is NOT your real face \u2013 it is a mask that you wear and it is a mask that the society always wants you to \u2018polish\u2019 and \u2018perfect\u2019.<\/p>

Personality is NOT individual, it is social. Society wants you to have personalities not individualities, because your individualities will create conflict. The society hides your individuality and gives a personality. Personality is a learned thing. When personality disappears, don’t be afraid you become AUTHENTIC – for the first time you become REAL, for the first time you attain to essence. That essence – in India has been called Atma, the soul. – Osho<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY \u2013 you remain no more REAL \u2013 you remain no more AUTHENTIC \u2013 you remain no more TRUTHFUL \u2013 and SATURN ALWAYS wants truthful men and women!<\/p>

Saturn loves all truthful men and women. And so \u2013 always remember \u2013 the only way to get BLESSINGS of LORD SATURN \u2013 is by BEING REAL \u2013 BEING TRUTHFUL \u2013 BEING YOURSELF ~~~<\/p>

SATURN is like the JUDGE. The JUDGE of the SUPREME COURT. HE simply observes the FACTS \u2013 HE simply observes \u2013 WHAT YOU ARE FROM WITHIN \u2013 whether you are REAL or FAKE \u2013 whether you are BEING YOURSELF or you are CHASING OTHERS \u2013 TRYING TO MAKING OTHERS HAPPY \u2013 TRYING TO APPEASE OTHERS \u2013 TRYING TO BRIBE OTHERS \u2013 whatever you ARE FROM WITHIN \u2013 whatever ACTS (KARMA) you execute \u2013 SATURN simply executes HIS orders accordingly \u2013 in the COURT OF SATURN \u2013 JUSTICE IS NEVER DENIED \u2013 it maybe DELAYED \u2013 but it is NEVER DENIED.<\/p>

A good SATURN \u2013 a good MAN cannot do well in POLITICS \u2013 many times it happens \u2013 the leader is good \u2013 the man is good \u2013 intelligent \u2013 genius BUT still he struggles to get success in POLITICS!<\/p>

Mohan asked \u201c Why? Why so?\u201d<\/p>

Because in POLITICS \u2013 Individuals don\u2019t succeed. Because INDIVIDUALS (REAL BEINGS) are very straight \u2013 they will SAY as is \u2013 they will put the TRUTH forth \u2013 but people are NOT always comfortable to digest the TRUTH even though they want to know the TRUTH! In Politics \u2013 you need GREAT PERSONALITIES that appear APPEALING \u2013 even though you may be a great INDIVIDUAL \u2013 still you need a PERSONALITY to succeed in POLITICS \u2013 and who helps you to shape this PERSONALITY \u2013 this MASK?<\/p>

RAHU.<\/p>

Rahu is the perfect MASK \u2013 that every POLITICIAN needs \u2013 without the support of RAHU \u2013 you cannot succeed in POLITICS \u2013 you need a MASK \u2013 a great MASK \u2013 an appealing FACE \u2013 and that is what Abraham Lincoln was struggling with \u2013 when he was planning to fight the US Presidential elections\u2026<\/p>

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Abraham Lincoln \u2013 a man with a clean shaved face and penetrating eyes \u2013 one of the greatest genius and intelligent man that the world had ever known \u2013 was on his way to fight the US Presidential Elections. But Abraham had a shortcoming. He was NOT at all a handsome man \u2013 he was also not an absolute WHITE man! His intelligence was GREAT \u2013 probably there must be no other man in the US who could level with his intelligence \u2013 he was a genius. But his personality was poor \u2013 just because of his face. In the context of the American standards \u2013 he was not a handsome man. And even though he had the confidence and all the qualities to WIN the Presidential Elections \u2013 he had to struggle with his appearance \u2013 that was one shortcoming \u2013 just one and he often wondered how to deal with it.<\/p>

But something strange happened \u2013 it always happens with blessed souls\u2026..<\/p>

During the US Presidential election campaign \u2013 he had come to Westfield, New York and he was a great Orator \u2013 a large crowd was listening to his speech when a little girl noticed him, she was looking attentively at his face. This little girl became the angel of his life \u2013 she played a very significant role in helping him win the Presidential elections \u2013 if there is anybody who deserves the credit for Abraham Lincoln becoming the President of America \u2013 then it is the little girl\u2026.<\/p>

When Abraham Lincoln was giving his speech \u2013 and what a speech it was \u2013 the little girl really liked his speech \u2013 his arguments. But what didn\u2019t appear so appealing was HIS FACE. Women from their childhood days are always quick to notice the physical beauty or physical ugliness of a man \u2013 this little girl also noticed certain facial marks of Abraham Lincoln that were not looking great. After the speech \u2013 when Lincoln was available for a few minutes, the little girl goes to him and suggests that he should grow beard on his face \u2013 as that will give a much better look to his face and also will cover the spots on his face that are not so appealing.<\/p>

Lincoln was a man of awareness. A man of awareness never lets in his Ego. He thinks over the suggestions shared. Lincoln didn\u2019t ruled out her suggestion, in fact he gave a serious thought to it and started growing beard\u2026.and the beard gave him a totally NEW PERSONALITY \u2013 now you don\u2019t see his pictures anywhere without beard \u2013 now you don\u2019t see the ugliness (spots) anywhere on his face \u2013 now you find his face more appealing \u2013 and it is said that after that makeover \u2013 LINCOLN goes on to WIN the Presidential ELECTIONS \u2013 He Becomes the President of America. And Lincoln was such a beautiful person \u2013 a man of heart \u2013 that after winning and becoming the President \u2013 he remembers the little girl and her suggestion \u2013 and as a mark of gratitude \u2013 he writes a letter to the little girl \u2013 in his letter to that little girl \u2013 he writes:<\/p>

\u201cYour Suggestion Worked.\u201d<\/p>

A great man \u2013 an insightful man of great understanding \u2013 Abraham Lincoln.<\/p>

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And the little girl whose suggestion helped Lincoln win the elections- her name was Grace Greenwood Bedell.<\/p>

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After few months of becoming the President \u2013 Abraham Lincoln visits the same place where the little girl had suggested him to grow beard \u2013 and in that crowd when he talks about this little girl \u2013 suddenly a very old man comes walking \u2013 finding his way through the crowd \u2013 and along with him is the little girl \u2013 he comes and says to President Abraham Lincoln \u201c Mr. President -that gir \u2013 my daughter, her name is Grace\u2026.Grace Greenwood Bedell\u201d<\/p>

Listening to these words and finding the little girl standing before him \u2013 President Lincoln steps down and kisses the little girl \u2013 tears of gratitude rolling from his eyes \u2013 he says \u201cGracie\u2026look look at my beard. I have been growing them for you.\u201d<\/p>

A beard of many months that had grown longer \u2013 touched the cheeks of that little girl \u2013 she smiled \u2013 her suggestion worked.<\/p>

Today at the same place \u2013 Westfield, New York \u2013 a monument of this unique meeting between President Lincoln and Grace \u2013 the little girl, is instilled and this monument reminds us of the fact that at times \u2013 even simple small genuine suggestions \u2013 no matter from whom or from where it comes \u2013 it CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE.<\/p>

Only if you have the heart of Lincoln and the awareness and readiness to LISTEN.<\/p>

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But there is also another side to this story \u2013 and that is the darker side.<\/p>

And the darker side is this \u2013 that the world never recognizes the INNER BEING \u2013 even a highly intelligent man like Abraham Lincoln had to CHANGE HIS APPEARANCE \u2013 because PEOPLE LOOK ON THE OUTSIDE \u2013 the world is interested to look at your APPEARANCE \u2013 the world does NOT look into your inner being. That little girl \u2013 Grace \u2013 must be something, must be a great observer \u2013 because at that tender age she could realize this fact \u2013 that itself makes her a genius \u2013 in her autobiography \u2013 she writes that after the meeting at Westfield, New York \u2013 she never gets to meet Lincoln again \u2013 and that is understandable considering Lincoln\u2019s schedule and the many social challenges, civil wars and many difficult socio-political situations that he had to overcome during his tenure.<\/p>

In Politics, in Cinema, in Society \u2013 to succeed you always need a PERSONALITY.<\/p>

That is the fact of this Material World \u2013 you can\u2019t help. I can\u2019t help. Even Lincoln could not help! He had to let the beard grow\u2026.!<\/p>

But in the SPIRITUAL WORLD \u2013 in real spiritual life, PERSONALITIES need to be dropped \u2013 totally dropped. Because here \u2013 in this world \u2013 the spiritual man \u2013 the Yogi is ABSOLUTELY NOT INTERESTED or BOTHERED to MAKE OTHER HAPPY! HE is simply HAPPY BEING HIMSELF \u2013 in his bliss, in his peace, in his joy by turning inwards \u2013 engrossing deeply WITHIN\u2026he is no more meditating \u2013 he is Meditation.<\/p>

Such a man, such a Yogi has dropped his personality \u2013 the \u2018mask\u2019 is thrown away \u2013 dropped. The whole process of being able to DROP THE PERSONALITY (MASK) and experience the REAL FREEDOM of living your life \u2013 by Being YOURSELF is Meditation.<\/p>

Dropping the mask and bringing out your original face is the whole alchemy of meditation. – Osho<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

A Real Man \u2013 a Real Woman \u2013 will never ever focus on making others happy \u2013 they are well aware of the fact that you CANNOT MAKE SATURN happy \u2013 that you cannot make any GOD or any PLANET happy. Such men of awareness \u2013 are consciously living their life \u2013 they KNOW that:<\/p>

IF they RESPECT every WOMAN \u2013 the qualities of VENUS will naturally ENHANCE within their being. They will be blessed with a beautiful wife \u2013 a caring wife \u2013 a loving wife \u2013 a honest wife. A good marital life. A satisfying sexual union.<\/p>

IF they RESPECT their MOTHER \u2013 the qualities of MOON will naturally ENHANCE within their being. They will receive more love, more caring, more nurturing from their mother and all motherly-figures that they may come in contact with.<\/p>

IF they RESPECT their FATHER \u2013 the qualities of SUN will naturally ENHANCE within their being. Then if you are a woman \u2013 you will find a good husband \u2013 a good male friend \u2013 you will always get the required support from the MEN that you come across in your life.<\/p>

IF they RESPECT and LIVE with RESPONSIBILITY \u2013 with AWARENESS \u2013 with TRUTHFULNESS \u2013 the qualities of SATURN will naturally ENHANCE<\/p>

IF they RESPECT and CARE, and FEED animals, birds, ants \u2013 the qualities of KETU will naturally ENHANCE within their being \u2013 then they will get all the required support for their spiritual progress.<\/p>

IF they RESPECT and CARE, FEED the downtrodden class people \u2013 the condemned people \u2013 the poor people \u2013 the highly exploited class of society who were called \u2018untouchables\u2019 by the so called intellectual class \u2013 if THEY SERVE these poor people selflessly \u2013 the qualities of RAHU will start tilting towards POSITIVISM \u2013 towards HIGHER QUALITY DESIRES \u2013 because one need to realize that DESIRES always remain \u2013 the question is whether the DESIRE is to have MORE SEXUAL PLEASURES, MORE MONEY, MORE POWER, MORE WEALTH, MORE STATUS \u2013 OR\u2026..the desire has scaled up to higher altitudes and NOW the only DESIRE left is to MEDITATE \u2013 is to TURN INWARDS \u2013 is to LOOK WITHIN and SELF REALIZE how IDIOT I have been my whole life \u2013 is to laugh at your own foolishness and realize the RIGHT PATH forward!<\/p>

It is ONLY when you start looking within \u2013 turning inwards \u2013 meditating \u2013 that you SELF REALIZE that the WAY IS NOT OUTWARD \u2013 the WAY IS INWARD \u2013 then you no more ask questions or think about MAKING OTHERS HAPPY \u2013 because the GODS, the LORDS, the PLANETS cannot be APPEASED \u2013 cannot be BRIBED \u2013 cannot be made HAPPY \u2013 they are NOT OUTSIDE YOU \u2013 they are WITHIN YOU \u2013 and so as I mentioned in the very beginning of this answer \u2013 that IF YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY \u2013 then it is ENOUGH \u2013 the rest will take of itself \u2013 the future will take care of itself!<\/p>

But who wants to listen?<\/p>

Religion has become a BUSINESS. Temples have become the Mecca of Businesses. Pundits have become Businessmen. MONEY has become IMPORTANT \u2013 VALUES, TRUTH, ETHICS, MORALITY have been pushed at the backseat \u2013 and they are watching \u2013 they are watching very closely -they know when TIME will come \u2013 Volcanoes will erupt, Pandemics will come \u2013 everything will happen \u2013 because GOD will never want all of these SHOPS to continue \u2013 you are free to do you business OUTSIDE the TEMPLE \u2013 but you certainly will not be allowed to do BUSINESS inside the TEMPLE \u2013 everything has a TIME \u2013 when the TIME will come \u2013 these TEMPLE SHOPS will be closed \u2013 and nobody could stop this from happening \u2013 GOD STEPS IN \u2013 when IGNORANCE BECOMES TOO MUCH.<\/p>

Those Who Think They Can Get Away With Injustice Must Remember That God Does Not Sleep.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

SATURN is one significant tool \u2013 \u2018iron staff\u2019 of GOD \u2013 that GOD hold this \u2018iron staff\u2019 in HIS hands. This \u2018iron staff\u2019 can be used to provide you SUPPORT or to give you a nice SHAKE UP. And GOD uses it to give a nice SHAKE UP \u2013 when there is injustice \u2013 when there is corruption \u2013 when there is discrimination on the NAME OF RELIGION, CASTE, and COLOR.<\/p>

And those INDIVIDUALS \u2013 those LEADERS \u2013 those MEN of AWARENESS who are determined to FIGHT for the well being of the society \u2013 of those who have been denied justice \u2013 those who have been unfairly treated \u2013 are blessed by GOD \u2013 to such men and women \u2013 SATURN (the \u2018iron staff\u2019 of GOD) always SUPPORTS \u2013 always HELPS.<\/p>

I know there is a God, and that He hates injustice and slavery. 1 see the storm coming, and I know that his hand is in it. If He has a place and work for me – and I think He has – I believe I am ready. -Abraham Lincoln<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

I AM READY.<\/p>

How significant are these three words \u2013 \u2018I AM READY\u2019<\/p>

READY to FIGHT AGAINST INJUSTICE.
READY to FIGHT AGAINST DISCRIMINATION.
READY to FIGHT AGAINST CORRUPTION.<\/p>

IF you are also READY \u2013 if each one of you is also READY to FIGHT AGAINST INJUSTICE, DISCRIMINATION, CORRUPTION \u2013 then ONLY then SATURN is WITH YOU. So the question is not about making Saturn happy \u2013 the real QUESTION is WHETHER each one of you is WILLING to WALK on the PATH OF JUSTICE, EQUALITY, BROTHERHOOD, HONESTY \u2013 if you are, then you don\u2019t have to worry \u2013 you absolutely don\u2019t have to bother about making SATURN happy \u2013 SATURN is WITH YOU \u2013 and will be with you as long as you continue your \u2018journey\u2019 with HIS values instilled in your HEART.<\/p>

Values are of two types: one that is imposed upon you from the outside and the other is the VALUE that ARISES in your own being.<\/p>

Imposed values make your life more miserable than otherwise. When you live your life by following VALUES THAT ARE IMPOSED ON YOU FROM THE OUTSIDE \u2013 you simply become \u2018Artificial being\u2019 \u2013 you miss the beauty of living by being yourself \u2013 by being NATURAL! Imposed Values try to differentiate you from animals \u2013 try to make you feel superior than animals \u2013 BUT IN REALITY \u2013 you fall below the level of animals \u2013 because at least animals are NATURAL \u2013 But you are NOT. Animals have no imposed values \u2013 they live naturally \u2013 they are better than those who live life with imposed values from the outside!<\/p>

Values that ARISE within you are GREAT TRANSFORMING ENERGIES \u2013 that can simply bring out the BEST WITHIN YOU \u2013 can simply help you explore the full potential of your being.<\/p>

SATURN recognizes such VALUES \u2013 VALUES that ARISE WITHIN YOU \u2013 through your OWN SELF REALIZATION and it is beautiful \u2013 it is simply beautiful \u2013 self realizing VALUES by turning inwards \u2013 is indeed a great transforming phase of life! Listening to your inner voice is indeed the beginning of real life \u2013 the spiritual life \u2013 the blissful life!<\/p>

Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

There are millions of people around you \u2013 around each one of you. And the majority of it is a SLAVE of their MIND. And the MIND is a Monkey. Now when you take other\u2019s opinion about you \u2013 seriously, you are also becoming like them. Because they are following their mind and you are also letting your MIND do the dance \u2013 dance of thoughts \u2013 many many thoughts and in the whole process you start losing your SELF \u2013 the distance starts growing and a time comes in your life when you feel lost \u2013 totally lost!<\/p>

This can change \u2013 only if you STOP paying attention to those who are still to know themselves.<\/p>

Nobody can tell you \u2013 WHO YOU ARE \u2013 WHAT YOU ARE \u2013 as accurately \u2013 as you yourself Can! So STOP looking outside for KNOWING WHO YOU ARE \u2013 STOP looking outside to get your INTRODUCTION \u2013 you have to INTRODUCE yourself \u2013 and that is possible only when you START TURNING INWARDS!<\/p>

Many of you may be wondering \u2013 that this man is again and again and again is saying the same thing \u2013 Meditate. But that is what all the scriptures and all the divine masters have been repeating AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN\u2026\u2026<\/p>

Mohan asked one day \u2013 \u201cWhy so? Why again and again the same MESSAGE is shared \u2013 why?\u201d<\/p>

And the answer is that by reading again and again and again \u2013 some day \u2013 at some moment \u2013 that WORD of GOD \u2013 that MESSAGE of GOD will penetrate into your being \u2013 into your HEART and then the miracle will start happening \u2013 then the transformation \u2013 then the HEART will start vibrating \u2013 then at some point the eyes will become wet \u2013 and the day the tears of joy \u2013 the tears of self realization will start flowing\u2026\u2026life will also start flowing on the right direction \u2013 then there will be a song to it \u2013 then there will be a dance \u2013 then life will no more be a misery \u2013 problems may continue to exist \u2013 miseries may continue to engulf your life \u2013 but NOTHING can DISTURB you \u2013 NOTHING can move you \u2013 you remain UNMOVED \u2013 you remain ENGROSSED in HIS holy Name \u2013 in deep meditation \u2013 then even though you are walking in the busiest market \u2013 your meditation remains \u2013 your peace remains \u2013 your joy remains \u2013 it is all WITHIN and that which is WITHIN \u2013 cannot be taken away from you \u2013 nobody should and nobody can.<\/p>

When you own your breath, nobody can steal your peace.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

The first kind of imposed value is just a hypocrisy. It is a strategy to make you believe that you have transcended the animals; but in fact you have even fallen below the animals. The animals are at least natural; you are NOT even natural. Your values distort your nature, distort your simplicity, distort your innocence \u2013 but they give you a false notion that you are a MAN. The second type of values are the authentic values. But for them you have to avoid any kind of imposition from the outside, you have to allow your own inner being \u2013 you have to let the VOICE WITHIN YOU speak \u2013 and that is possible only WHEN YOU LEARN TO QUIET the MIND.<\/p>

Someone is becoming somebody to MAKE OTHERS HAPPY \u2013 and that is the most unfortunate thing to happen with human life. It is sad that a person of Abraham Lincoln\u2019s caliber also had to change \u2013 had to grow beard \u2013 had to modify his appearance to make others happy \u2013 to make himself appealing when in reality he had all the \u2018ingredients\u2019 within \u2013 but still he had to change his appearance because the WORLD does NOT look into your inner being.<\/p>

When you ask about making other happy \u2013 you always have to COMPROMISE.<\/p>

And when you COMPROMISE \u2013 you start losing on your INDIVIDUALITY.<\/p>

In the futile effort to keep someone happy \u2013 Individuality is lost, and when there is no Individuality to your existence \u2013 life becomes miserable.<\/p>

In offices, in families, in schools, in colleges \u2013 in every platform of your life \u2013 you all are trying to MAKE SOMEONE HAPPY. You feel that by making the OTHER PERSON \u2013 happy \u2013 you will become happy.<\/p>

Trying to keep somebody happy \u2013 is making yourself vulnerable to that which is on the OUTSIDE. And the OUTSIDE is always changing \u2013 remember this. And I say this to all my readers, followers and fellow travelers- the factors on the Outside are always changing. If you all become a SLAVE to the OUTSIDE factors (people, situations, planets) \u2013 you will never find the happiness that you seek.<\/p>

How long can you keep someone HAPPY?<\/p>

And the moment you CANNOT \u2013 you start feeling miserable. So your happiness becomes totally dependent on the outside factors and that is how you go on missing life\u2026.you make yourself miserable.<\/p>

I can understand the questioners mindset. It is not his fault- it is the fault of this fake society that goes on emphasizing that you have to make somebody happy \u2013 only then can you receive rewards in return.<\/p>

Such a mindset is the mindset of a dealer. It is a deal \u2013 I make you happy, you make me happy.<\/p>

But Buddha won\u2019t relate to this mechanism. He simply won\u2019t understand why you are taking so much effort to make him happy \u2013 that is absolutely not required.<\/p>

The love of the master is always unconditional. Whether you make him happy or you make him unhappy \u2013 HIS love never changes a bit. You simply cannot make him happy and you cannot make him unhappy BECAUSE His happiness is not based on your actions or thoughts \u2013 His happiness is within \u2013 there is absolutely no dependency on the outside \u2013 whether you hurt him or love him \u2013 he remains engrossed WITHIN \u2013 there is no without.<\/p>

If you come to doubt, I’ll give you every reason to doubt. If you come suspicious, l’ll give you every reason to be suspicious. BUT if you come seeking LOVE, I’ll show you more LOVE than you’ve ever known. – His Holiness Mahavatar Babaji<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

The LOVE of the LORD is beyond the power of expression. You simply cannot make the LORD happy and you simply cannot make the LORD unhappy \u2013 the divine LORD \u2013 the divine energies are way beyond the trivial state of happy and unhappy \u2013 language is really poor \u2013 words cannot suffice.<\/p>

But people don\u2019t get it. They \u2018see\u2019 God just the way they \u2018see\u2019 their boss or senior executive. They think that just the way they make their boss happy \u2013 they can make the LORD also happy \u2013 that never happens \u2013 LORD is LORD \u2013 HE is beyond the state of happiness and unhappiness \u2013 but human MIND cannot contain this TRUTH \u2013 it is possible that this answer may be banned, collapsed or even deleted but Truth has to be shared \u2013 someone out there can relate to it \u2013 someone out there can understand and benefit from it \u2013 and there is always someone out there \u2013 always.<\/p>

By and by \u2013 it has to be self -realized that the first step towards happiness \u2013 is to make yourself happy. God comes only to a happy soul, Love comes only to a happy soul.<\/p>

Love life, be more happy. God can come only to a happy soul. Only when you are utterly happy is there a possibility, otherwise not – because misery closes you, bliss opens you up. – Osho<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

How to be more happy? What is the source of happiness?<\/p>

Authenticity.<\/p>

One word \u2013 just one word \u2013 Authenticity! The more you are AUTHENTIC \u2013 REAL \u2013 YOURSELF \u2013 the more you have all the possibilities to experience happiness.<\/p>

This Authenticity is the ESSENCE of your BEING to which we address as the SOUL \u2013 ATMA!<\/p>

A spiritual man is authentic. A man who is on his way towards the BEYOND is authentic. He may not be liked by the society but rarely is he bothered about the LIKES and DISLIKES \u2013 he is simply engrossed within \u2013 he is simply happy to be!<\/p>

To such an authentic man \u2013 BLISS is what matters and NOT happiness.<\/p>

The more you become authentic \u2013 you move beyond the state of happiness \u2013 you start experiencing BLISS. In the state of BLISS \u2013 you move beyond the state of happiness and unhappiness \u2013 that is the state of Buddha \u2013 the authentic Yogi \u2013 that is the state of every divine Saint \u2013 they have moved beyond happiness and unhappiness and now what is left is BLISS \u2013 eternal bliss!<\/p>

The way to move beyond happiness and unhappiness is the way of the Buddhas!<\/p>

Bliss is possible only through \u2013 meditation \u2013 turning inwards, and find your way back \u2018home\u2019.<\/p>

Meditation is painful in the beginning but it bestows immortal Bliss and supreme joy in the end. –\u00a0Sivananda<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

In the end \u2013 at the very end of your life, my life, and every person who is reading this answer \u2013 what is it that you really can retain and take with you after this human life is over?<\/p>

BLISS. PEACE. JOY.<\/p>

And if one is unable to take this with him or her \u2013 then let me tell you and to all my followers, readers and fellow travelers \u2013 there is nobody as POOR as the person who cannot carry forward with him \u2013 the BLISS, the PEACE, the JOY! Such a man \u2013 no matter how much he has earned in his life \u2013 is the most unfortunate man \u2013 the most poor man than otherwise!<\/p>

Always remember \u2013 the last moment of DEATH is very important. People always are interested to know the BIRTH CHART \u2013 but nobody is willing to focus on the DEATH CHART! Just like your BIRTH CHART is developed based on the planetary placements of that day and time \u2013 similarly DEATH CHART is also developed based on the day, time and place of your death! But the DEATH CHART is not seen by human beings \u2013 it is seen by the astral bodies who govern the whole cosmic cycle of birth and rebirth!<\/p>

The very last moment of your life is extremely significant. The divine Saint Neem Karoli Baba mentions this in the most beautiful way \u2013 as always:<\/p>

If you desire a mango at the moment of death, you’ll be born an insect. If even you desire the next breath you will take birth again. – Neem Karoli Baba<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

The BIRTH MOMENT decides the course of your journey in this birth. The DEATH MOMENT decides your journey beyond this birth. And so DEATH CHART is also as significant as the BIRTH CHART!<\/p>

People have many fancy ideas about DEATH \u2013 as if after DEATH there is somebody waiting to welcome you \u2013 heavens and so on. It is all but a Myth \u2013 an illusion. In reality life is simple \u2013 death is also simple \u2013 this whole universe is simple \u2013 simplicity has it all!<\/p>

The journey after DEATH \u2013 simply begins from the point where you LEFT this human body!<\/p>

Don’t depend on death to liberate you from your imperfections. You are exactly the same after death as you were before. Nothing changes; you only give up the body. If you are a thief or a liar or a cheater before death, you don’t become an angel merely by dying. If such were possible, then let us all go and jump in the ocean now and become angels at once! Whatever you have made of yourself thus far, so will you be hereafter. And when you reincarnate, you will bring that same nature with you. To change, you have to make the effort. This world is the place to do it.- Paramahansa Yogananda<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

The evolution \u2013 the transformation \u2013 the maturity that you have gained \u2013 the level of consciousness that you have attained at the very last moment of your life \u2013 IS WHAT YOU CONTINUE WITH AFTER DEATH.<\/p>

LIFE is therefore in continuation \u2013 whatever you are now is the continuation of what you have been so far and whatever you will be is again going to be continued from here-within!<\/p>

The picture never ends \u2013 the story never ends \u2013 the cycle of birth and rebirths continues \u2013 taking many physical forms \u2013 the Universe is therefore Ancient and so are we all \u2013 Ancients!<\/p>

The whole perspective should change \u2013 from focusing outward to turning inward. From making others happy \u2013 to finding your happiness within!<\/p>

Happiness is your nature. It is not wrong to desire it. What is wrong is seeking it outside when it is inside. – Sri Ramana Maharshi<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

All that you seek \u2013 is within you. So come \u2013 come you all and meditate. No matter how much noise is on the outside \u2013 how much of FEAR of DEATH and DISEASES is on the outside \u2013 always remember the STORM will cool down only when it is DONE with its purpose. For time and ages \u2013 many diseases and many wars have happened \u2013 and it has ended only when it has TAKEN all those for which it had come! Nobody can stop the NATURAL DISASTERS \u2013 they come in time and they also go when it is time.<\/p>

Never blame SATURN \u2013 for any disasters \u2013 because then you will have to blame Krishna too for not stopping the Mahabharata War! Nobody can stop the coming of the storm \u2013 when the time has come \u2013 neither could Krishna and nor could Saturn. Just like the birth and death of human beings \u2013 the world goes through destruction and construction \u2013 it is an ongoing process that goes on and on and on \u2013 there is no stopping \u2013 it keeps moving like a WHEEL!<\/p>

Nothing therefore is forever \u2013 neither the good times nor the bad times. NOTHING LASTS FOREVER \u2013 happiness and unhappiness are two ends \u2013 and the life of human beings continue to revolve through these two ends \u2013 there is no man \u2013 no woman who has never been unhappy and there is no man and no woman who has always been happy! As much as there is happiness in one\u2019s life \u2013 equal is also unhappiness in one\u2019s life!<\/p>

Sadness gives depth. Happiness gives height. Sadness gives roots. Happiness gives branches. Happiness is like a tree going into the sky, and sadness is like the roots going down into the womb of the earth. Both are needed, and the higher a tree goes, the deeper it goes, simultaneously. The bigger the tree, the bigger will be its roots. In fact, it is always in proportion. That’s its balance. – Osho<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

Balance is necessary \u2013 and it manifests only when you find balance within.<\/p>

There is no such thing as work-life balance – it is all life. The balance has to be within you. – Sadhguru<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

This balance \u2013 comes when you meditate \u2013 when you spend some quality time with yourself \u2013 when you realize that Enough is Enough \u2013 now *is* the TIME to look within and make the most out of these life that is left \u2013 and nobody know how much of life is left! DEATH never comes with an appointment \u2013 it simply strikes at the most unknown \u2013 unexpected moment! And so instead of spending energy in making others happy \u2013 start spending your energy in making yourself happy \u2013 and the way to do it is by turning inwards!<\/p>

If you want joy, you have to turn inward, because that is where it is generated. – Sadhguru<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

Turn inward. That is the message \u2013 the only message that if you can relate, you can transcend \u2013 you can experience joy \u2013 happiness, bliss in your life.<\/p>

Once you are happy \u2013 once you are joyous \u2013 the thought of making others happy never arise. Then the glow of your happiness, the shine of your joy starts spreading all over those who come in your contact. Just the way when the pebble is dropped in the pond \u2013 the first ripple of joy appears and then it goes on spreading and creating multiple ripples of joy \u2013 spreading it to the farthest shores!<\/p>

When you are happy \u2013 you can spread happiness. The focus should be \u2013 YOU. When YOU are total in whatsoever you do \u2013 you attain success! Saturn or God \u2013 or the benevolent divine master \u2013 nobody can make them happy and nobody can make them unhappy \u2013 they shower their blessing on you \u2013 only when you start turning inwards \u2013 when you start focusing within \u2013 when you start helping others \u2013 when you start transforming into a HUMAN BEING!<\/p>

By physical form we all are human beings \u2013 but we should ask ourselves again and again \u2013 that whether we are truly human beings?<\/p>

Your humanity is FAKE. Because when you become angry it is the ANIMAL within you that comes out and NOT the human being. – Osho<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

Anger cannot be controlled. Sexual urge cannot be controlled. Greed cannot be controlled. Bad habits cannot be controlled. Still the progress to human being has not happened in its totality \u2013 still this world and the \u2018animal\u2019 of two legs is far away from being human!<\/p>

The whole essence of meditation is to help you all become human beings. To help you all overcome Anger \u2013 overcome sexual desires \u2013 overcome lust for power and money \u2013 the whole essence is to bring you to the FINEST STAGE OF HUMANITY \u2013 then the real life begins \u2013 then the real journey with GOD begins \u2013 then there is a certain depth to your existence.<\/p>

Only a fine human being can evolve into a fine Yogi!<\/p>

The journey is long \u2013 it has to begin at some stage of life \u2013 and once it begins \u2013 it should not stop, it should not halt \u2013 it should continue till the journey itself becomes the destination!<\/p>

And when the journey becomes the destination \u2013 when you no more are bothered to REACH ANYWHERE but simply REJOICE in your journey WITH GOD \u2013 then \u2013 then the whole universe is available to you \u2013 then there is no looking back \u2013 and the \u2018journey\u2019 continues\u2026..once you find joy ~ love ~ peace in the journey of your life \u2013 then the journey itself becomes the destination \u2013 and you are back \u2018home\u2019 \u2013 back to the source within!<\/p>

Life is a journey, and if you fall in love with the journey, you will be in love forever. -Peter Hagerty<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>

Love yourself. Then you can love others. Then you can find love in your life \u2013 and then the need to make others happy won\u2019t arise \u2013 once you are \u2018home\u2019 \u2013 you have arrived and once you have arrived \u2013 once you have started living with consciousness \u2013 then the future takes care of itself \u2013 then like a beautiful \u2018river\u2019 \u2013 life keeps flowing\u2026\u2026you meet the right men and women who resonate with you \u2013 leading to a wonderful communion that goes on enriching your life with wisdom and spreading your fragrance to the farthest shores of this planet! It all happens on its own \u2013 you just have to focus on the key \u2013 and the key is to turn inward and meditate.<\/p>

Meditate.<\/p>

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