{"id":5723,"date":"2021-09-11T07:05:07","date_gmt":"2021-09-11T07:05:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.astroinsights.co.in\/?p=5723"},"modified":"2025-04-28T16:24:28","modified_gmt":"2025-04-28T10:54:28","slug":"rahu-and-second-marriage-link","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thehealingastro.com\/blog\/rahu-and-second-marriage-link\/","title":{"rendered":"Rahu and Second Marriage Link"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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In the ancient Indian context (Sanatana Dharma) – Lord Rama is the most ideal husband. And there is a very significant reason for this.<\/span><\/p>\n

The reason is – His Ek-Patni (one-wife) commitment!<\/span><\/p>\n

In the whole history of Indian Mythology – it is only Lord Rama who was committed to ONE WIFE – he never married twice – he never had a SECOND WIFE or THIRD WIFE or many more wives as other Hindu Lords had!<\/span><\/p>\n

Lord Ganesha had more than one wife.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lord Krishna had more than one wife.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lord Shiva had more than one wife.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lord Vishnu had more than one wife.<\/span><\/p>\n

However it is only Lord Rama who had one wife – he was totally committed to his consort – Sita. He\u00a0never\u00a0married twice – he remained committed to his first wife –\u00a0Sita!<\/span><\/p>\n

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Many people across this human world read the holy scripture \u201cRamayana\u201d. But many are not aware that there exists many versions of Ramayana – the most known are \u201cTulsi Ramayana\u201d written by the great Saint Tulsidas and the much realistic Ramayana – written by the great Sage – Valmiki!<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Tulsidas loved Rama so much that he cannot mention even the slightest weak point of Rama! However Valmiki has been able to do so – because he was not a devotee of Rama and so Saint Valmiki – in Valmiki Ramayana mentions that before getting married to Sita – Rama had seen her in a garden and at that moment itself he had fallen in love! So the love between Rama and Sita was a first sight love!<\/span><\/p>\n

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Valmiki narrates that Rama comes to the city where Sita lives and wandering in a garden – sees Sita and falls in love with her. This is inconceivable to us – but it is a reality. Love happened to Rama before marriage. Marriage came afterward just as a supplement to love. To Sita too, love happened the moment she saw this young man – Rama. <\/strong><\/p>\n

– Osho<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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The marriage that happened between Rama and Sita was indeed a Love Marriage!<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

But the common man cannot digest this fact – and so Tulsidas had to do some modifications – so that it goes well with the common man.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you understand that Rama Sita\u2019s marriage is based on LOVE – Deep Love – you will realize why Rama never had to marry twice – he couldn\u2019t because he was so much in love with Sita!<\/span><\/p>\n

The whole point of this sharing is that you understand that the FIRST MARRIAGE is extremely significant than the SECOND MARRIAGE!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cHow?\u201d asked Mohan.<\/span><\/p>\n

First Marriage is signified by the 7th house.<\/span><\/p>\n

However Second Marriage is signified by 11th house!<\/span><\/p>\n

And 11th house is the house of DESIRE.<\/span><\/p>\n

You see – and RAHU is DESIRE. Along with Saturn – Rahu also rules the sign Aquarius and the sign Aquarius falls in the 11th house of Kaal Purush Kundali!<\/span><\/p>\n

Now the obvious question would be \u201cFirst marriage also has manifested out of desire – so why first marriage is not under RAHU?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Because – FIRST is FIRST. You never were married until you married for the FIRST TIME in life! So here you are NOT crossing the line – here your desire has manifested but NOT by crossing your boundaries!<\/span><\/p>\n

However when you fell in love with another woman – and eventually marry her by divorcing your first wife who is still NOT dead – then you are crossing your boundary and RAHU signify all that which crosses the BOUNDARY – Rahu loves all that which BREAKS THE RULES – BREAKS THE TRADITION. Rahu signify all that is considered as immoral or unethical – and when you get into extra-marital relationship with another woman – then you are certainly following on the path of RAHU! And when you get married with that woman – you have entered the RAHU DOMAIN – and that is how it is observed by many scholars and pundits that – SECOND MARRIAGE has failed many times – than the THIRD MARRIAGE!<\/span><\/p>\n

THIRD MARRIAGE comes under the domain of Mercury!<\/span><\/p>\n

The 3rd house in the Kaal Purush Kundali is ruled by Gemini – the sign of Mercury. And 3rd house signify the third marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n

Many times it happens that second marriage fails but third marriage succeeds. In fact I have met men and women who have found their third marriage – a turning point of their life!<\/span><\/p>\n

When Mercury is well -placed and Yogakaraka then third marriage works very well!<\/span><\/p>\n

So third marriage is generally not a problem – but the real problem, the real pain point is the SECOND MARRIAGE – I call it a RAHUISH MARRIAGE – because Rahu signify Second Marriage!<\/span><\/p>\n

From statistics and historic records – even though SECOND MARRIAGE has always been more problematic and the cause of many miseries – still there are few men who have enjoyed their SECOND MARRIAGE than the FIRST! So how that happens?<\/span><\/p>\n

It happens when RAHU is well-placed and YOGAKARAK. So when a man has a RAHU placed in positive NAKSHTRA and the NAKSHATRA LORD is also positively placed and is also YOGAKARAK then to such a man – the second wife proves beneficial in many ways!<\/span><\/p>\n

But the buck doesn\u2019t stop here.<\/span><\/p>\n

Having a positively placed RAHU and RAHU\u2019s Naksatra Lord is first part of the story – the second part is what decides the final outcome.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cWhat is the second part?\u201d asked Mohan<\/span><\/p>\n

The second and most important part is in which ASCENDANT sign the native is born?<\/span><\/p>\n

RAHU dislikes the DHARMA SIGNS (Zodiac Signs that signify religion).<\/span><\/p>\n

Rahu dislikes the MOKSHA SIGNS (Zodiac signs that signify liberation).<\/span><\/p>\n

DHARMA SIGNS are LEO, SAGGITARRIUS, ARIES<\/span><\/p>\n

MOKSHA SIGNS are CANCER, SCORPIO, PISCES<\/span><\/p>\n

So SECOND WIFE can prove beneficial for only those natives who are born on the following\u00a0Ascendant Signs:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  5. CAPRICORN<\/span><\/li>\n
  6. AQUARIUS<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    So the basic ground – the basic foundation for these 6 ascendant signs is suitable for RAHU to play its second innings (second wife). Even if RAHU placement is not great still if the ascendant is one of these six zodiac sign then somehow the native can survive the second marriage!<\/span><\/p>\n

    However the challenge of second marriage is for those who are born on the following ASCENDANT SIGNS:<\/span><\/p>\n

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    4. SCORPIO<\/span><\/li>\n
    5. SAGGITARRIUS<\/span><\/li>\n
    6. PISCES<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Now imagine if RAHU is not placed well then how terribly the native belonging to these above Ascendant signs will have to suffer in their\u00a0second marriage?<\/span><\/p>\n

      Marriage is not just limited to love and sex.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Relationship is limited to love and sex. Relationship brings no responsibilities. But Marriage brings many responsibilities. And so the very basic secret of judging whether your marriage will work or not is found in the placement of Saturn in your birth chart!<\/span><\/p>\n

      Saturn means Responsibilities. You feel burdened while carrying out your responsibilities when you do a certain work or certain thing because it is your duty.<\/span><\/p>\n

      However when you do a certain thing out of LOVE – you will feel NOT burdened but rather happy and lighter!<\/span><\/p>\n

      Marriage becomes A BURDEN when you take it as a part of your DUTY. However the same Marriage can become a great source of strength, a great source of motivation when your marriage is made of that special ingredient called LOVE!<\/span><\/p>\n

      First Marriage fails. Second Marriage fails – not because LOVE fails. LOVE NEVER FAILS. Lovers fail.<\/span><\/p>\n

      First Marriage can be arranged marriage or love marriage however SECOND MARRIAGE is mostly found to be LOVE MARRIAGE and there is absolutely no second thought to this fact.<\/span><\/p>\n

      The real beauty is in exploring the THIRD MARRIAGE!<\/span><\/p>\n

      THIRD MARRIAGE is generally born out of the quest for intellectualism. You are no more interested in finding a good looking, hot and sexy partner – you are now more interested in finding a partner who can co-relate with your intellectualism, who is a good communicator, who has that mercurial flair – who is a good conversationalist – and basically one who is able to stimulate your brain with intellectual talks! It is all MERCURY – and so it may not bring sexual satisfaction but that\u2019s fine because now – during the third marriage you are more interested in finding a partner who understands and resonates with your thought pattern!<\/span><\/p>\n

      Thought leadership, thought pattern – all of these comes under the domain of Mercury. So over all third marriage has less MASALA (spice) than the SECOND MARRIAGE!<\/span><\/p>\n

      Second marriage or second wife is full of spice – full of stories and shocks and surprises! There is always a surprise element in second marriage!<\/span><\/p>\n

      First marriage is indeed the foundation of your marriage journey! You may marry several times but the SIGNIFICANCE of first marriage always remains above all other marriages and that is indeed a fact that cannot be denied!<\/span><\/p>\n

      That is why – a KING may marry several beautiful women – but the FIRST WIFE always becomes the main consort – the main QUEEN!<\/span><\/p>\n

      Now we will see the reason of failures in marriage:<\/span><\/p>\n

      FIRST MARRIAGE FAILURE REASON:<\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. RAHU\/KETU – MARS\/VENUS placed in 7th house. OR<\/span><\/li>\n
      2. Seventh house LORD\u2019s Nakshatra Lord placed in sixth, eighth or twelfth house. OR<\/span><\/li>\n
      3. Seventh house LORD\u2019s Nakshatra Lord owns sixth, eighth or twelfth house<\/span><\/li>\n
      4. SATURN\u2019s third aspect on seventh house followed by MARS seventh or fourth aspect<\/span><\/li>\n
      5. Seventh house caught between cruel evil planets of between the owners of sixth, eighth and twelfth house<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Along with these primary reasons – many more reasons can become the cause of DIVORCE in FIRST MARRIAGE.<\/span><\/p>\n

        SECOND MARRIAGE FAILURE REASON:<\/span><\/p>\n

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        • RAHU is not placed well and on top of that if the Ascendant sign is ARIES, CANCER, LEO, SCORPIO, SAGGITARRIUS, PISCES<\/span><\/li>\n
        • Eleventh house Lord\u2019s Nakshatra Lord is Rahu or is placed in 12th or 6th or 8th house. So for example – Eleventh house (Gemini) Lord is Mercury. And Mercury is placed in Rahu\u2019s Nakshatra and Rahu is in 12th, 6th, 8th then the second marriage will fail or will continue to cause troubles.<\/span><\/li>\n
        • Eleventh house is caught up between 10th and 12th house which hosts evil cruel planets.<\/span><\/li>\n
        • Saturn\u2019s third aspect on 11th house or Mars fourth or seventh aspect on 11th house<\/span><\/li>\n
        • Eleventh house LORD\u2019s Nakshatra Lord owns sixth, eighth or twelfth house<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

          So apart from these there are many more reasons that can make the second marriage a nightmare!<\/span><\/p>\n

          Remind me of a beautiful incident when Prince Siddhartha (the future Gautama Buddha) decides to leave his Palace, his wife, his children and walk into the forest. It was a dark night – Prince Siddhartha asks his driver (charioteer) to leave him at the border of his kingdom. His driver\u2019s name is Channa. And Channa loved his master \u2013 it was the most difficult moment for him \u2013 to leave the master \u2013 he was perfectly aware that once gone \u2013 the master (Prince Siddharta) is never going to return. His eyes became wet. Just as he leaves Prince Siddharta at the border of his kingdom \u2013 and the Prince gets down from his chariot \u2013 Channa says\u00a0\u201cI am just a driver, and also this is not my business to interfere. Your order is your order, so I have brought you to the boundary of your kingdom. But if you don\u2019t mind let me say a few words. What are you doing? This is what everyone aspires to be \u2013 a Prince like you! You were born as Prince. Why are you leaving everything? Remember the Palace, remember your beautiful wife, remember your father, the kingdom, and the happiness it brings?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          Prince Siddhartha looked into the driver\u2019s eyes and said \u201cI cannot understand what you are talking about. I have not left any palace behind or any kingdom.\u00a0I have left ONLY a nightmare.\u00a0The word renunciation means you are leaving something valuable behind. I have not renounced anything. There was nothing to be renounced. The whole thing is on fire. It was a nightmare. And\u00a0I thank you\u00a0because\u00a0you have helped me to come out of it.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          And Prince Siddhartha leaves for the beyond\u2026 Meditate on HIS words \u2013\u00a0\u201cThere was NOTHING to renounce.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          And never ever does he comes back to his kingdom. He comes only when he is totally transformed \u2013 and have become the\u00a0Buddha\u00a0\u2013\u00a0Gautama Buddha.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          And\u00a0when\u00a0he comes back\u00a0, the whole kingdom comes to see him, all lanes and all roads are crowded \u2013 just to have a glimpse of the man whose name has become phenomenal \u2013 whose name has been the inspiration for millions and millions \u2013 and they all came except one woman \u2013\u00a0the wife of Gautama Buddha (Prince Siddharta)!<\/span><\/p>\n

          Her name was\u00a0Yashodhara.\u00a0And she remained in her Palace. Of course, she was mad at him. One night without telling her \u2013 without any intimation \u2013 this man had left her. It was natural for her to not to come to welcome the man\u00a0with whom the whole world was in love!\u00a0But not her, she remained unmoved. Buddha arrives at the Palace. He looks around, nothing has changed, he smiles. Goes to Yashodhara and Yashodhara is very angry, almost every cell of her body is boiling in anger \u2013 and now before her is standing a man \u2013 her husband \u2013 who had left her 12 years ago \u2013 Gautama Buddha!<\/span><\/p>\n

          Now, what to say! But she said \u2013 she was so much angry that she had absolutely no resistance \u2013 she just burst out with anger and said\u00a0\u201cCouldn\u2019t you have trusted me? You could have said that you wanted to go, and I would have been the last woman in the world to prevent you. Couldn\u2019t you have trusted me even that much?\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n

          And she was crying.\u00a0Twelve years of anger!\u00a0And this man had escaped like a thief in the middle of the night \u2013 suddenly, without giving a single hint to her.<\/span><\/p>\n

          Buddha looked into her eyes and apologized.\u00a0The master has no Ego, the real master understands the pain more than anybody in this whole world!<\/span><\/p>\n

          And so Buddha apologized to her \u2013 and said \u201cIt was out of non-understanding.\u00a0I was ignorant, I was not aware.\u00a0But now I am aware and I know \u2013 that\u2019s why I have come back.\u00a0You have helped me tremendously.\u00a0Forget those old things,\u00a0now there is no point in thinking about\u00a0\u2018spilt milk\u2019.\u00a0Look at me!\u00a0Something great has happened. I have come home.\u00a0And\u00a0I felt my first duty was towards you:\u00a0to come, and to convey,\u00a0and to share my experience with you.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          And the words were so beautiful, so true, so deep \u2013 that they moved the heart of\u00a0Yashodhara\u00a0\u2013 she could see\u00a0that this man has really changed\u00a0\u2013 that\u00a0this is something else\u00a0\u2013 that this man is something else \u2013\u00a0His glow, His Aura, His peace, His words\u00a0\u2013 she could no more control herself,\u00a0she burst out in tears,\u00a0the whole palace moved \u2013 everybody came running and they all could see Yashodhara falling at the Buddha\u2019s feet \u2013 rarely has this happened\u00a0in the history of the human world\u00a0\u2013\u00a0a wife ACCEPTING her Husband as her Guru!\u00a0And with her tearful eyes flowing through the Buddha\u2019s feet, she says<\/span><\/p>\n

          \u201c Initiate me, I want to be your disciple.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          Truth has tremendous strength \u2013 and for a man who himself is the epitome of Truth \u2013 what is not possible? Everything is possible \u2013 everything is possible! Buddha raises her and gives her a warm hugh – a new relation was born – not of husband and wife – but of master and disciple!<\/span><\/p>\n

          As long as third marriage is concerned – there is very less chance of divorce because you are already tired – you already had enough – you also cross your 40 by then and so as mentioned previously – third marriage is based on intellectualism and also since it comes under the domain of Mercury – a practical perspective is more in dominance than otherwise. In your FIRST marriage – you were excited – it always happens – when you are driving for the FIRST TIME – you are excited. Then the excitement starts fading – then you want to drive something more exciting – something more adventurous – you are attracted towards unconventional ways of life – and that is how you jump into your second marriage – the RAHUISH MARRIAGE!<\/span><\/p>\n

          And then when you get many kicks in second marriage – you still don\u2019t give up. You marry for the third time – but this time you are not very excited – you are no more moved by the outer appearances – you are looking for certain DEPTH – certain INTELLECTUALISM – certain level of UNDERSTANDING – and so the third marriage works well than the second marriage!<\/span><\/p>\n

          NOW – let this be very clear that SECOND MARRIAGE SUCCESS or FAILURES is very subjective – though I have shared the essence of it and so don\u2019t jump to conclusions – don\u2019t generalize the outcomes. As mentioned – second marriage can work provided RAHU is beneficial and you are born on ASCENDANT SIGN that is suitable to RAHU in your chart.<\/span><\/p>\n

          Mohan asked \u201cBut tell me – is it necessary to get married?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          For true lovers – marriage is NOT necessary. Marriage becomes necessary when you want LEGAL COMMITMENT and when legality comes – freedom is lost! So many couples remain in \u2018failed marriages \u2018-\u00a0they are afraid of stepping out of the wedlock\u00a0– because they have made friendship with their old friend called called –\u00a0MISERY.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          You Don’t Want To Loose Your Old Friend – The Misery – You Have Invested Too Much Into False – Hence The Fear To Be Exposed-To Be True – To Be Naked As You Are. – Osho<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
          Never suppress your feelings – never tolerate injustice – never stay in a marriage that SUFFOCATES you – never stay in a marriage that steals your FREEDOM.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

          LOVE blossoms only when there is FREEDOM.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          Love Is A By Product Of Freedom; It Is The Overflowing Joy Of Freedom, It Is The Fragrance Of Freedom. First The Freedom Has To Be There, Then Love Follows. – Osho<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
          Marriage is just a legal union – a validation – a legal commitment. Marriage definitely steal your freedom – because now you are in a lock – a wed-lock!<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

          But for true lovers – marriage is\u00a0not\u00a0necessary. LOVE needs\u00a0NO CERTIFICATION. For true lovers – legal commitment is not necessary – because LOVE itself is a commitment!<\/span><\/p>\n

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          Love Is An Unconditional Commitment To An Imperfect Person. To Love Somebody Isn’t Just A Strong Feeling.\u00a0<\/span><\/span>It Is A Decision, A Judgement And A Promise.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

          Marriage\u00a0is an outcome of\u00a0FEAR.\u00a0The doubt –\u00a0will my lover remain with me forever\u00a0– gives birth to the union called MARRIAGE because MARRIAGE brings legal compulsions. Marriage is a promise of a secured future!<\/span><\/p>\n

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          Marriage is an effort to legalize love. It is out of fear. It is thinking about the future, about the tomorrows. Man always thinks of the past and the future, and because of this constant thinking about past and future, he destroys the present. And the present is the only reality there is. One has to live in the present. The past has to die and has to be allowed to die\u2026 – Osho<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

          In reality divorce rates are high – very high in India as well as outside India. In country like Singapore – there are many dating sites but you will rarely find a matrimonial site! That is how poor state of marriage is in Singapore!<\/span><\/p>\n

          Marriage brings compulsive commitment. LOVE brings natural commitment! There is a difference – that is why when it comes to LOVE – I always say –\u00a0its different!<\/span><\/p>\n

          The logical folks may say that LOVE is BLIND – but\u00a0in reality only LOVE has EYES.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          People Say Love Is Blind Because They Do Not Know What Love Is. I Say Unto You, Only Love Has Eyes; Other Than Love, Everything Is Blind. – Osho<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
          One day Mohan asked \u201cHow come diehard lovers when get married – they start quarrelling and eventually step into a divorce?\u201d<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

          The answer is simple – as long as you are in a love relationship – there is absolutely NO legality involved – there is NO compulsion – there is NO responsibility – there is no third person other than you and your lover! So basically there is ABSOLUTE FREEDOM – and LOVE simply blossoms in the garden of FREEDOM. Before getting into the marriage\u00a0wed-lock – you continue to blossom like a beautiful flower\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          But when marriage happens – the flowering stops – because now many people become a part of your love relationship – (mother-in-law, father-in-law, sister-in-law, brother-in-law\u2026.) the list is unending – when so many \u2018in-laws\u2019 are mixed in your sweet love relationship – there is bound to be certain clashes – clashes of ego that eventually starts impacting your love relationship – and that is how many love marriages fail – when compared to arrange marriages!<\/span><\/p>\n

          Arranged marriages are pure deals. You step in an arranged marriage – with the mindset that there will be many stake holders in your marriage – and again since there is no love involved and you are complete stranger – it becomes easy to digest all that is thrown at you – after marriage!<\/span><\/p>\n

          Yesterday someone had asked \u201cWhat is the secret of remaining happy and\u00a0married\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          It is difficult. I cannot answer this question. Jesus also cannot answer this question. Neither could Buddha nor could Mahavira. Because if they would have found the answer – then they would not have stayed unmarried!<\/span><\/p>\n

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          Jesus knew the secret of the kingdom of God, but he did not know the secret of remaining happy in marriage. He remained unmarried. Mahavira, Lao Tzu Chuang Tzu, they all remained unmarried for the simple reason that there is no secret; otherwise these people would have discovered it. They could discover the ultimate \u2013 marriage is not such a big thing, it is very shallow \u2013 they even fathomed God, but they could not fathom marriage. – Osho<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

          So marriage is a very shallow thing – you can jump into a shallow lake – but it is a lake, it is not a flowing river and it also lacks depth – so you may not enjoy much swimming in this shallow lake called marriage!<\/span><\/p>\n

          But many do enjoy – or they pretend to enjoy – whatever the case – the choice is yours – get married or stay unmarried – doesn\u2019t matter really when you embark on the greatest journey – the journey within!<\/span><\/p>\n

          In fact I encourage everybody to get married – because that is how they can complete one circle – they can understand through their married life experiences on whether marriage is worth it!<\/span><\/p>\n

          Experience matters above all. You may read hundred of books about marriage – but those hundred books cannot enlighten you – you may fantasize on having a beautiful wife or a handsome husband – but all those fantasies are not worthy before you ACTUAL EXPERIENCE OF MARRIAGE!<\/span><\/p>\n

          So don\u2019t fear of getting married – don\u2019t fear of getting into a vicious circle of bad marriage experiences – because these bad experience\u00a0can\u00a0become the foundation of your life – on which you can build your tower of success!<\/span><\/p>\n

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          Rock Bottom Became The Solid Foundation On Which I Rebuilt My Life.- J.K. Rowling<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
          J.K. Rowling had a very bad marriage experience – but those experiences and after going through a painful divorce – she rose to great heights of success and fame!<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

          Always remember – each experience that you go through can and does transform you into a much evolved person – only if you are willing to learn from your experiences – only if you are willing to turn inwards and self-realize that you are NOT a pigeon but an\u00a0EAGLE\u00a0who\u00a0dares to fly high\u00a0in spite of many challenges and negative situations!<\/span><\/p>\n

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          An Eagle Uses The Negative Energy Of A Storm To Fly Even Higher. – Eric Thomas<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
          Be like an EAGLE. Remember – You are born to experience all aspects of human life because only then will you evolve – only then will you mature in the true sense!<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

          There was a young man – he sets out in search of a real master. On his way – while walking through the forest – he stumbles upon an old man – and the old man was beneath the banyan tree – he was in his own bliss – there was something about this old man – His Glow, His Aura – but the young man could not relate with the old man\u2019s divinity – the young man stepped ahead and said \u201c You look like a wanderer – you must have wandered all over the planet. Could you please tell me – where can I find my master – my Guru?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          The old man smiled. His smile was so deep – so sweet and so mysterious that the young man wondered what must be the reason for such a beautiful smile. Before he could ask – the old man said \u201c You guessed it right. I am a wandered and I have been through many places on this planet. I will tell you the way to find the master\u2026.you go straight and the you take right and continue to walk until you find the master.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          The young man was very happy. He thanked the old man and followed his direction\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n

          20 years passed and still the young man was not able to find the real master – the real Guru! Devastated and disappointed – he decided to return back home\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n

          On his way back home – he found the same old man sitting beneath the same Banyan tree. The old many had become much older but still the charm. the grace, the aura, the glow – everything was the same! Suddenly the young man realized that it is this same old man who used to appear in his dreams. For last twenty years often in his dreams he would see the same banyan tree and the same old man – was it is a sign – was it a message – the young man\u2019s eyes were filled with tears\u2026\u2026he realized his mistake – he rushed towards the old man – touched the old man\u2019s feet and started crying like a child\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n

          He said \u201c Why? Why you never told me that YOU are my MASTER! That you are my GURU. Why?\u2026..\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          The old man – the master opened his eyes – there was so much love – so much grace in his eyes that the young man was deeply moved. The master said \u201c Because you were blind. I was before you but you couldn\u2019t recognize Me\u2026.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          The man said \u201cBut all these 20 years are wasted\u2026\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          The compassionate master smiled and said \u201cNo that is not right. Those twenty years have helped you gain the \u2018EYES\u2019 through which you have NOW recognized me. To gain these \u2018EYES\u2019 – experience was necessary. All the FAKE people and FAKE saints that you came across these twenty years have given you a new eyesight – you have matured – you have evolved and that is why it is NOW that you have recognized me. And look at me – I haven\u2019t moved a bit – I have been waiting for you – from last twenty years!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          Listening to these deeply moving words – the man simply burst out in tears\u2026..the master moved his hand on his back and said \u201cWhy you cry – I was always WITH YOU.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

          Experiences of all kind is necessary so as to get a new EYESIGHT through which you can recognize the real and drop the fake!<\/span><\/p>\n

          In this life you will be able to CONNECT with real authentic fellows – only when you have started turning inwards – when you have started meditating with love and devotion.<\/span><\/p>\n

          Love to all my readers.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          Stay blessed. And remember to meditate every day.<\/span><\/p>\n

          Jai Shri Ganesha. Jai Guru.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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