Yesterday, Mohan asked a very significant question:
Which planets and which houses are responsible for sexual encounters?
It is a very deep subject—and many people don’t talk about it.
- Those who have gone through certain sexual affairs will understand why it happened.
- Those who, by mistake, got into such sexual encounters will understand what caused them.
Many times, you’re married, and then you get into an extramarital relationship.
Sometimes, you’re already in a relationship but end up cheating on your partner.
Now, there are people who continue making the same mistake again and again—falling from grace.
And then there are those who fall, realize their mistake, and rise again.
That is the real glory.
The real glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time you fall.
Understanding the Houses
Let’s begin by understanding which houses play a role in attraction, bonding, and sexual activity.
5th House – Attraction
Attraction happens through the 5th house.
And this attraction is deeply rooted in past life karmic patterns—your taste, liking, and ideas about a partner.
You might see a beautiful woman falling in love with an utterly unattractive man—or vice versa.
But this attraction has a karmic foundation.
So when someone says, “I like you,” that emotional spark originates from the 5th house.
7th House – Bonding & Partnership
Bonding or partnership happens through the 7th house.
This is the house of marriage and public declaration of commitment.
Millions of people love someone but get married to someone else.
Love and marriage don’t always walk hand in hand.
Occasionally they do, but it’s not a rule.
The 7th house is also connected to the public, and hence, marriage becomes a social acknowledgment of a relationship.
All Kendra (center) houses are connected to the public and society.
8th House – Sexual Intercourse
The 8th house is directly related to sexual intimacy and intercourse.
There are married couples who are not sexually active, yet they share deep emotional bonding—that’s when the 5th and 7th houses are strong, and the 8th is dormant.
Then there are cases where the relationship is driven purely by sexual desire or violence.
In such cases, the 8th house is highly active, but the 5th and 7th houses are weak or inactive.
When the 8th house is afflicted by planets like Rahu or Mars, it leads to cheating, extramarital affairs, or multiple sexual liaisons.
So when the 8th is strong, and the 5th and 7th are weak—there is no emotional or bonding factor, only raw desire and indulgence.
And when there is no balance, you are bound to commit mistakes.
Understanding the Planets
Let’s now talk about the three main planets responsible for sexual encounters:
1. Venus
The natural significator of love, romance, and sensuality.
Venus shows your style of loving and being loved.
2. Mars
Represents passion, energy, and sexual drive.
Mars rules Scorpio, which corresponds to the 8th house in the Kalapurusha chart.
3. Rahu
Amplifies desires, especially unconventional, taboo-breaking desires.
Rahu can lead to obsession and indulgence in impulsive sexual relationships.
Planetary Combinations & Sexual Encounters
When Venus, Mars, or Rahu get connected to the 5th, 7th, or 8th house,
you are likely to experience sexual encounters in this lifetime.
The 8th house also brings suddenness.
So if you are going through the Mahadasha or Antardasha of the planet ruling the 5th or 8th house, you may fall in love and become sexually involved during that period.
- If the 5th and 8th combine, it may begin with love and end in sex.
- If only the 8th is involved, then it’s just sex—with no love.
No Shame, Only Awareness
There is nothing to be ashamed of.
Whatever happens, happens because of past karmic connections.
Yes, some people fall from grace.
But the real glory is not in pretending to be perfect—it is in rising after every fall.
Mistakes happen.
But repeating those mistakes again and again—that’s foolishness.
A wise soul learns, corrects the path, and grows stronger.
If you’re a good-hearted person, and you have made such mistakes—
whether it’s cheating or having multiple affairs—
don’t carry guilt.
Just don’t repeat the mistake again.
Stay loyal.
Self-Righteousness Is Dangerous
I don’t like people who pretend they can never go wrong.
Such people are living in utter ignorance.
You never know when the planets will test you—
and make you an ass of yourself.
So never think, “I will never do something like this.”
Anything can happen with anyone.
History is witness to this truth.
Show Mercy. Be Compassionate.
Instead of criticizing those who’ve fallen from grace,
support them.
Help them.
Give them a second chance.
Because if it can happen to them,
it can also happen to you—or your children.
Be compassionate.
Yes, people should live with awareness.
But many times, it’s the karma of past lives that pulls them into such incidents.
If they are not repeating those mistakes again,
then they deserve your mercy.
One who shows mercy is greater than the one who gives punishment.
Jai Sri Ganesha.
Jai Guru.
