How to deal with negative people?

Written By Addittya Tamhankar

Many times it happens that we all get fed up of negative men and negative women. So then what should we do?

We should simply remain unavailable and NEVER react. Because when an ELEPHANT walks in the market – there are always some dogs who will keep barking because they are disturbed within!

The ELEPHANT has absolutely nothing to do – he is walking in his own bliss – it is their own disturbance that makes them feel insecure, restless and then they start barking – hating and doing all sorts of negative acts that ULTIMATELY BRING THEM DOWN – AFFECTING THEIR HEALTH AND PEACE WITHIN.

Such negative men and women suffer from many miseries – black magic spells work on them MUCH faster than the rest. And it is very simple logic – the more you are NEGATIVE WITHIN the more you will ATTRACT NEGATIVE ENERGIES SUCH AS SPELLS much easily. In fact it become easy for a black magician to TARGET A NEGATIVE PERSON because by being NEGATIVE – half of his( black magicians) job is already done!

So whenever people post NEGATIVE COMMENT OR TRY TO CAUSE HARM TO ME – I laugh. And so does GOD. And it is not just my story – it is also yours! Whenever anybody cause trouble to you – try to demotivate you – try to ridicule you – GOD IS LAUGHING. Because whosoever is doing this dirty game from behind the curtains is being watched closely by GOD and GOD just waits and waits and waits – just the way Lord Krishna goes on waiting and waiting until SHISHUPAL’s quota of SIN is FULL and then Krishna kills him with HIS SUDARSHAN CHAKRA!

That is exactly what happens with these negative men and women – all you should do is to remain calm and NOT react.

Sometimes I think that NOW I should take leave from all these social media platforms – and I am sure many of you must have had thought by being fed up of the negative people on social forums.

But then the compassionate masters says that even though there are utterly negative people on social forums still we must NOT forget that there are also many POSITIVE GOD LOVING INSIGHTFUL SEEKERS on social forums.

Just because of a few jealous negative rubbish people – we should not miss the true seekers.

This human world is a MIXTURE of SALT and SUGAR. Salt is more. Sugar is less.

And our focus should be on finding the sugar ( positive men and women) and IGNORE the salt ( utterly negative cheap shallow people).

Our whole focus should be on positive real good fellows! You all will be surprised but out of many requests for consultation that come – I respond to very few. And I dont even need to talk – just your photo or just your few words that you type on WhatsApp is enough for me to understand what kind of person you are! And whether I should respond and consult you or not.

And if by chance you call me – then your voice says it all – then I give all kind of reasons to reject requests for consultation and when I perceive that the person is really good – then I go all the way to consult him or her!

Because Astrology is not my bread and butter. The fees I charge is to bring VALUE to my TIME and the remedies that I suggest. Because FREE has no value and those who seek FREE consultation are men of not good character.

Truth is HARD and I don’t care because I never did anything for getting applause or upvotes and still those few men and women who can resonate with my sharing- they come and they come from all corners of the world and I am happy to consult them – because My focus is on QUALITY and not on Quantity.

A time will come when I will be no more on this forum or any social forums. But till then the journey continues and ONLY those few can join who can truly understand the deeper aspects of human life.

You pull yourself into problems when you start REACTING.

Mohan asked “ Why people are quick to react?”

The answer is in one word – Mind.

When your Mind is fast – you will ALWAYS REACT.

When your Mind is slow – you will NOT react – instead you will RESPOND.

When your Mind is STILL – you will Not React. And neither will you respond. You will simply stay SILENT!

“A mind that is fast is sick. A mind that is slow is sound. A mind that is still is divine.”— Meher Baba

A beautiful real picture of Avatar Meher Baba.

I prostrate before His Holiness Avatar Meher Baba.

Our whole focus must be on reaching the stage where our MIND remains STILL!

To a mind that is STILL – the whole universe is available!

To STILL the MIND – the only way is to start meditating. And to get ready for meditation- you all should also start reading the holy scriptures of your faith!

Today is SATURDAY and that reminds me of Hanuman Chalisa – a beautiful powerful hymn written by one of the greatest Saint- Saint Tulsidas.

Neem Karoli Baba was himself the Avatar of Lord Hanuman and he spend his whole life in helping people realize the significance of reciting the Hanuman Chalisa!

But who wants to listen?

But those who listen – those who start IMPLEMENTING what they have learned – start transforming into a beautiful person!

In a million – one beautiful person is born! Because believers are many and seekers are few!

And Buddha wants seekers. Because only a seeker can dare to jump within – only a seeker will say “ Show me how to meditate” while a believer will just keep asking questions that has only curiosity to it and nothing else!

A believer will ask “ does God exist?” He is just curious. Just wants to have a chit chat.

But a seeker is a totally different phenomenon. A seeker will ask “ Show me how to experience God. I want to experience God.”

That is difference between a believer and a seeker.

The master is always in search of seeker – a real seeker. And remember – a seeker is NOT a student but a disciple!

Because a student cannot wait – a student is NOT patient. He is simply interested to gather knowledge.

A disciple can wait. A disciple has immense patience. He can go on waiting and waiting and waiting and in this waiting itself – he goes on transforming- because the more he waits for the Guru the more love is born within his whole being!

And then a time comes when at the most unexpected moment the Guru appears before him and then there is no looking back – then the initiation happens – then the ONENESS – then their is no sense of duality – then there is no master and no disciple – the master becomes one with the disciple – how to express such ONENESS! Language has limits – and expressing is not possible in words!

Everything is possible. Only if you are willing to change – only if you are willing to drop your head and follow your heart!

Kabir always used to say “ Follow me only if you are willing to put your house on fire. Become my disciple only if you are willing to cut your head.”

Logic is your head. Love is your heart.

Kabir is not interested in your head. Kabir is interested in your heart.

And that is how God works. God is not interested in your logic and your university degrees and your intellectualism. God is simply interested in your heart – if you are a man of heart – if you are a woman of heart then no matter where you are and in what situation you are – GOD WILL COME IN SEARCH OF YOU…

Once Ananda asked Buddha “ Master – how you plan your journey?”

And Buddha said “ Ananda I never plan anything. My legs simply start moving towards those men and women who are thirsty for my words, my love..”

And that is the whole essence of life – you don’t have to go to the Himalayas- the Himalayas will come wherever you are – only if there is a longing – a deep thirst to experience God – to experience the Beyond!

And so always focus within and not on the negative people in your life. Focus on YOUR FRIENDS and NOT on your enemies.

And tell me – who can be your good friend than the divine master?

Krishan was first a good friend and then the Guru of Arjuna!

In Ganesha Shloka – there is a verse in which we say “ Tvamev Mata Sakha Tvamave” – meaning “ O LORD GANESHA – you are my mother and you are my friend…

So come…start walking with God because there is NO other friend that can be a true friend – a true guide than God himself!

God sends his messengers and the messengers share HIS messages – the more you resonate with the messages of God – the more you come closer to that divine God experience!

Our whole focus should be on fine tuning our ANTENNA- so that we keep receiving the divine messages of God and continue to experience the Growth within.

The more you meditate with devotion and faith – the more your ‘Antenna’ strengthens.

Stay focused within and meditate every day.

And when you meditate – always remember: You are Not Alone.

God is With You. Stay tuned with GOD.

Jai Shri Ganesha. Jai Guru.

Addittya Tamhankar

Addittya Tamhankar

Acharya Addittya Tamhankar is a distinguished astrologer and acclaimed author known for his in-depth knowledge and insight into astrology. He has authored over 11 books, including bestsellers on the cosmic entities Rahu and Ketϋ, and his recent works include "Come Back Home - Reconnect to Source Consciousness" and "27 Nakshatras - the Living Legends." Alongside his literary achievements, Acharya Addittya has cultivated a substantial online following, with over 1,000 YouTube videos and a community of more than 40,000 subscribers. His blogs offer enlightening discussions on spirituality and planetary influences, drawing readers and viewers who seek wisdom and deeper understanding of these complex subjects.
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