Can two people who once loved each other deeply suddenly begin to hate each other? Can a husband and wife
who were emotionally and physically close suddenly stop touching each other, stop talking to each other, and start fighting over the smallest things? And what if there is no major betrayal, no financial disaster and no obvious reason — yet the marriage begins collapsing from inside?
This is where many people ask me one disturbing question: “Acharya ji, can black magic actually destroy a
marriage?”
My answer is — yes, black magic can be used with the intention of creating distance, hatred, suspicion,
sexual disconnection and even separation between husband and wife.
Marriage is not merely two people living under the same roof There is emotional bonding, physical bonding,
sexual bonding, mental bonding and family bonding. And spiritually, there is also an energetic bond between two
people. Therefore, if somebody deliberately wants to break a marriage, the objective is very simple: create
distance. First emotional distance, then physical distance, then suspicion, then anger, then hatred, and finally —separation or divorce.
One of the first things that can be targeted is the mind. Suddenly the husband starts feeling irritated with the
wife, or the wife starts feeling irritated with the husband. Small things become unbearable. The tone of voice
irritates. The presence irritates. The behaviour irritates. And slowly, the person whom you once loved becomes
the person you cannot tolerate.
Then comes constant fighting. Arguments begin over absolutely insignificant matters — a phone call, a message,
coming home late, speaking to somebody, meeting a relative. One small incident becomes a huge fight. And sometimes this continuous irritation, anger and misunderstanding is exactly what a relationship-breaking black magic spell is intended to create.
Then comes sexual disconnection. This is extremely important because sexual attraction is one of the strongest forms of bonding inside marriage.
A husband may suddenly stop touching his wife.
A wife may suddenly lose all sexual interest in her husband.
They may begin sleeping separately. One partner may start feeling intense attraction towards somebody outside the marriage while becoming completely cold towards the spouse.
And this is where VASHIKARAN comes into the picture.
Suppose a young woman working in an office wants your husband for her own selfish interest.
She wants his attention.
She wants him emotionally.
She wants him sexually.
And she wants him to move away from you.
In occult traditions, one of the specialized practices associated with controlling or influencing another person’s attraction is called VASHIKARAN.
Vashikaran literally refers to bringing a particular person under one’s influence or control. Once such an influence is believed to begin working, the targeted person may become intensely preoccupied with the person performing it.
He starts thinking about that woman day and night.
He starts having sexual fantasies about her.
He waits to meet her. He starts looking for opportunities to spend time with her.
And slowly, the wife starts noticing something very strange. Her husband suddenly changes. He begins ignoring her. He starts staying longer at the office. He starts finding excuses to spend more time outside. He becomes emotionally distant at home. But with that particular woman, suddenly he appears excited, interested and completely different.
I have personally consulted many women who have told me exactly this: “Acharya ji, my husband suddenly changed after becoming close to a particular woman in his office.” And in many such cases, the wife strongly suspected that some form of Vashikaran or attraction-based occult influence had been used because the behavioural change was sudden, extreme and completely unlike the husband’s earlier personality.
Understand something very important here. Infidelity itself can sometimes be the objective of black magic. A third person may not necessarily want to destroy the marriage directly. She may simply want the husband. Or a man may want somebody else’s wife. So the first objective is to create attraction, then emotional dependency, then sexual involvement.
And once the sexual relationship begins, the marriage automatically starts weakening.
The third person slowly becomes more important than the spouse.
That is why, in occult traditions, Vashikaran is considered particularly dangerous when it is directed towards a married person.
Traditional Vashikaran practices are believed to use personal objects connected with the
targeted individual — such as old clothing, photographs or something that has remained physically close to that person.
There are also occult traditions involving food and drink, where the targeted person is made to consume something over which a ritual or spell is believed to have been performed. That is why I have repeatedly spoken in this Black Magic Series about being conscious of what you eat, where you eat and from whom you accept food.
And there is another form of occult influence that is considered even more disturbing — black magic connected with sexual intercourse.
Suppose a married man has a one-night stand with another woman. For the man, it may appear to be just one night. But that one night can sometimes become the beginning of a much deeper trap.
Certain occult traditions believe that sexual intercourse creates an extremely strong energetic exchange between two people. Because of this, sexual intimacy has sometimes been associated with rituals intended to create obsession, attachment and control.
So a man may think: “It was just one night.” But afterwards he cannot stop thinking about that woman. He wants to meet her again, then again, and again. His sexual attraction towards his wife reduces. His fascination with the other woman increases. He starts emotionally defending that woman. He starts fighting with his wife.
And slowly, he becomes willing to destroy his own marriage for some body he barely knew before.
This is why I say: A one-night stand may last one night physically, but its consequences can last for years.
And black magic intended to create obsession can make that situation even more destructive.
Another very important target in marriage-breaking occult practices is suspicion. Suspicion itself can be planted
and intensified.
- A husband suddenly starts doubting his wife.
- A wife suddenly starts doubting her husband.
- Every phone call looks suspicious.
- Every late arrival becomes suspicious.
- Every friendship becomes suspicious.
- Every small incident begins creating doubt.
And when suspicion enters a marriage, peace leaves the marriage.
Understand this line carefully: A marriage does not always break because love disappears. Sometimes
somebody first destroys the trust — and once trust dies, love slowly follows.
This is why certain black magic practices are believed to focus not only on attraction, but also on confusion,
doubt, misunderstanding and hatred. The intention is simple. - Make the husband misunderstand the wife.
- Make the wife misunderstand the husband.
- Make them fight. Make them stop touching each other.
- Make them stop trusting each other.
- And eventually make them separate divorce.
Then comes emotional withdrawal - The spouse is physically present inside the house, but emotionally the person has gone somewhere
else. - No conversation. No affection. No interest.
- No excitement about coming home.
- No desire to sit together.
- No desire for intimacy. Nothing.
And then one day the person says: “I don’t know what has happened to me. I simply don’t feel the same
anymore.” That sudden emotional shutdown is something I pay very close attention to during consultations.
Now the next question is: Who would do this - Sometimes it can be an obsessive third person, a colleague, an ex-partner, somebody who wants your
husband, - somebody who wants your wife,
- a jealous relative,
- a rejected lover,
- someone carrying revenge, or
- someone who simply cannot tolerate seeing two people happily married.
That is why black magic directed at marriage is often not about money or property. Sometimes the target is
simply your relationship itself.
Astrologically also, timing matters. In my approach, I never simply look at one Rahu placement and declare black
magic. I examine the marriage houses, seventh house, relationship significators, Moon, Venus, Rahu-Ketu,
running Mahadasha and Antardasha, planetary afflictions and, very importantly, the current transits.
Because - even when somebody tries to harm you spiritually, there has to be a karmic opening for that suffering to
manifest.
This is why I repeatedly say: Black magic may create the disturbance — but karma decides how far that
disturbance can go.
It may create attraction. It may create obsession. It may create suspicion. It may create fighting. It may even push
the marriage towards separation. But ultimately, your karmic cycle decides how long that darkness is allowed to
remain.
And therefore, - if you suddenly notice extreme behavioural changes in your spouse — unusual hatred,
- unexplained sexual withdrawal,
- obsessive attraction towards another person,
- abnormal suspicion, constant arguments and sudden emotional abandonment — do not ignore the
pattern.
Observe carefully. Stay spiritually strong. Do not become mentally weak. Do not allow fear to destroy you.
Strengthen your prayers. Strengthen your mantra practice. Strengthen your faith. Because the moment you
become frightened, confused and desperate, you become weaker.
And remember one thing: Never give black magic more power than God. - A spell may create confusion.
- A spell may create attraction.
- A spell may create temporary separation.
- But no negative force should ever be treated as greater than divine grace.
That is why I always say: Black magic may start the disturbance, but your karma decides its duration —
and divine grace decides how you rise above it.
Jai Shri Ganesha. Jai Guru.
(Astrologer, Spiritual Guide & Rahu–Ketu Specialist)
Acharya Addittya Tamhankar is a widely respected astrologer, spiritual guide, and Rahu–Ketu specialist known for his deep understanding of karmic astrology and practical spiritual insight. With more than two decades of experience in Vedic astrology, he has guided thousands of individuals across the world in matters related to career, marriage, relationships, health, finances, emotional struggles, and life direction.
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